Keep talking before masturbate

By a staff reporter :
Self-pleasure is completely natural – everybody enjoys a little solo session once in a while. Although society can often make us feel wrong or dirty for masturbating, making it difficult for us to talk to our partner about it. Starting a conversation might seem like a scary step if masturbation is something you’ve never spoken about before. You can start feeling anxious – which is totally understandable. Try writing down how you’re feeling (cue cards are very helpful) and use this as a talking point with your partner. Focus on explaining why self-pleasure is important to you and how it makes you feel. Remember to choose a setting that keeps things light. The bedroom may feel a little too intimidating (particularly if it’s the place you choose to self-pleasure). Try opening the conversation in the living room or even the kitchen. Once the topic is on the table, it could help ease your feelings.